You get a “flitch of bacon” for not regretting your marriage in this British tradition

<script async data-uid&equals;"defcacd1dd" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;fierce-maker-9650&period;kit&period;com&sol;defcacd1dd&sol;index&period;js" data-jetpack-boost&equals;"ignore" data-no-defer&equals;"1" data-no-optimize&equals;"1" nowprocket><&sol;script>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;3 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5667 " id&equals;"quads-ad5667" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;text-align&colon;center&semi;padding&colon;0px 0 0px 0&semi;" data-lazydelay&equals;"0">&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- HH3 --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-9266290638607128" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"2439182190" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine;&lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div id&equals;"fb-root"><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;Flitch-History-Hustle-copy&period;jpg" alt&equals;"" width&equals;"763" height&equals;"640" class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-1181" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>By Stephanie Weber<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Ah&comma; one year of marriage&period; Time to look at the wedding photos&comma; eat the top of the cake&comma; and get a flitch of bacon&period; Wait&&num;8230&semi;what is that&quest; Well&comma; for years it was a tradition rewarded to happy couples who stuck it through one year of marriage&period; Where did this custom come from&&num;8230&semi;and where did it go&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;Flitch-of-bacon-History-Hustle-1905&period;png" alt&equals;"Flitch of bacon History Hustle 1905" width&equals;"640" height&equals;"433" class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-1179" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>A Flitch of Bacon<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A flitch of bacon is a British custom that goes as follows&colon; couples who can swear that they do not regret their marriage after a year and a day are rewarded a flitch of bacon&period; A flitch is a flank or side of an animal&comma; so basically a strip of bacon&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The tradition was very popular in Whichnoure or Wynchnor Hall&comma; a manor near Lichfield&comma; Staffordshire that was given to Sir Philip de Somerville in 1336 by the Earl of Lancaster for a small fee and a condition that he keep &&num;8220&semi;arrayed at all times of the year but Lent&comma; one bacon-flyke hanging in his hall at Whichnoure&comma; to be given to every man or woman who demanded it a year and a day after the marriage&comma; upon their swearing they would not have changed for none other&period;” <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Yes&comma; according to lore&comma; he was given his enormous manor upon agreement that he’d give bacon to a deserving couple&period; The couple was then supposed to read an oath and provide witnesses that could attest to their fidelity&period; The couple would then be escorted with music around the hall as part of their reward for not staying happily married&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure id&equals;"attachment&lowbar;1180" aria-describedby&equals;"caption-attachment-1180" style&equals;"width&colon; 760px" class&equals;"wp-caption alignnone"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;Flitch-of-bacon-History-Hustle&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Flitch of bacon History Hustle" width&equals;"760" height&equals;"582" class&equals;"size-full wp-image-1180" &sol;><figcaption id&equals;"caption-attachment-1180" class&equals;"wp-caption-text">BACON&excl;<&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<p>Writer and known-gossip <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;georgianera&period;wordpress&period;com&sol;2018&sol;07&sol;19&sol;conjugal-bliss-and-a-flitch-of-bacon&sol;">Horace Walpole<&sol;a>&comma; who visited Whichnoure in 1760&comma; reported that a real flitch wasn’t kept at the manor anymore because it had not been claimed in thirty years&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He claimed a wooden replacement hung over the fireplace in the main hall instead&period; Walpole was fascinated by the tradition which is why we have his writings on it&period; He wrote about it in letters to several of his friends and in one he famously wrote&colon; &&num;8220&semi;If you love a prospect&comma; or bacon&comma; you will certainly come hither&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>But why bacon&quest; What was the Earl of Lancaster’s deal&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>The Custom at Dunmow<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>It’s possible that the Earl of Lancaster  got the idea from Dunmow which held very popular Flitch trials for generations&period; Little Dunmow is a village in Essex and at the priory flitch trials were held for hundreds of years&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure id&equals;"attachment&lowbar;1178" aria-describedby&equals;"caption-attachment-1178" style&equals;"width&colon; 800px" class&equals;"wp-caption alignnone"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;The-flitch-chair-History-Hustle&period;jpg" alt&equals;"The flitch chair History Hustle" width&equals;"800" height&equals;"1067" class&equals;"size-full wp-image-1178" &sol;><figcaption id&equals;"caption-attachment-1178" class&equals;"wp-caption-text">The Flitch Chair<&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<p>Historians think it is possible the <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;dunmowflitchtrials&period;co&period;uk&sol;history&sol;">Dunmow Flitch<&sol;a> dates back to 1104 and was started by Lady Juga Baynard and then made popular a century later by Reginald Fitzwalter at the Augustine Priory when he and his wife dressed up as beggars asking for a blessing a year and a day after their wedding&period; Writers like Chaucer referred to the flitch&comma; leading historians to believe it was common knowledge&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>However&comma; the flitch is recorded to have been claimed only six times&period; It is possible there were more that were not recorded or that the records were lost&comma; but the ones that are known are recorded and held at the British Museum&period; The very first winner was Richard Wright who traveled from Norwich with his wife in 1445&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;Flitch-History-Hustle&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Flitch History Hustle" width&equals;"250" height&equals;"344" class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-1176" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;3 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5670 " id&equals;"quads-ad5670" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;text-align&colon;center&semi;padding&colon;0px 0 0px 0&semi;" data-lazydelay&equals;"0">&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block&semi; text-align&colon;center&semi;" &NewLine; data-ad-layout&equals;"in-article" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"fluid" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-9266290638607128" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"8337030220"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Strangely&comma; the requests for trials started getting rejected&period; In 1832 Josiah Vine&comma; a cheesemonger&comma; came with his wife from Reading to seek the Flitch&period; The Steward of Little Dunmow refused their request for a trial and was reported as saying that the trials were &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;an idle custom bringing people of indifferent character into the neighbourhood”&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>It wasn’t until Victorian novelist William Harrison Ainsworth wrote his 1854 novel <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;amazon&period;com&sol;Flitch-Bacon-Custom-Dunmow-English&sol;dp&sol;1357250762">The Flitch of Bacon or The Custom of Dunmow<&sol;a>&comma; A Tale of English Homelife that the tradition was revived&period; They are now held every four years&comma; much like the Olympics&comma; but for bacon instead of medals&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;Flitch-of-bacon-art-History-Hustle&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Flitch History Hustle" width&equals;"700" height&equals;"619" class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-1177" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>All of this is well and good&comma; but where did the tradition come from&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3>Behind the Bacon<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Historians think that the tradition goes all the way back to ancient Norse tribes&period; British Historian <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simonarich&period;com&sol;pagan-origins-of-christmas&sol;">Helene Adeline Guerber<&sol;a> believed the tradition was connected with the Pagan Yule feast and may have been connected to the god <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;germanicmythology&period;com&sol;original&sol;Freyja&percnt;20and&percnt;20Odr&percnt;202008&percnt;20CULT&percnt;20OF&percnt;20FREYR&percnt;20AND&percnt;20FREYJA&period;pdf">Freyr<&sol;a>&comma; a god who rode a wild boar and was connected with harmony&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Freyr was often asked to bless married couples who wish for a harmonious marriage and those who succeeded in having a happy marriage were rewarded with &&num;8211&semi; what else &&num;8211&semi; boar’s meat&period; Guerber theorized that the boar’s meat may have been translated somewhere along the way to bacon&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>There is <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;books&period;google&period;com&sol;books&quest;id&equals;avDXAQAAQBAJ&amp&semi;pg&equals;PA243&amp&semi;lpg&equals;PA243&amp&semi;dq&equals;The&plus;Abbey&plus;of&plus;St&period;&plus;Melaine&plus;bacon&amp&semi;source&equals;bl&amp&semi;ots&equals;oV6hlzi5H&lowbar;&amp&semi;sig&equals;K85LvEgAvM1KXInB2BVgMP1cTl0&amp&semi;hl&equals;en&amp&semi;sa&equals;X&amp&semi;ved&equals;2ahUKEwjFib3sma&lowbar;fAhUEVt8KHVwLApEQ6AEwDnoECAYQAQ&num;v&equals;onepage&amp&semi;q&equals;The&percnt;20Abbey&percnt;20of&percnt;20St&period;&percnt;20Melaine&percnt;20bacon&amp&semi;f&equals;false">evidence<&sol;a> to suggest that this was widely practiced in western Europe&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;historyhustle&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2019&sol;01&sol;Bacon-History-Hustle&period;jpg" alt&equals;"Bacon History Hustle" width&equals;"236" height&equals;"404" class&equals;"alignnone size-full wp-image-1175" &sol;><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For example&comma; a flitch of bacon was held at The Abbey of St&period; Melaine in Rennes&comma; Brittany in France&period; Allegedly bacon was hung for six centuries without being claimed by a happy couple&period; There was also a flitch in Vienna that hung with an inscription that read&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>Is there to be found a married man<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>That in verity declare can&comma;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>That his marriage him doth not rue&comma;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>That he has no fear of his wife for a shrew<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He may this Bacon for himself down hew&quest;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>There is a funny story about the Viennese bacon that when the man was rewarded it&comma; he asked if someone else could cut it down for him because grease on his clothes would lead to nagging from his wife&period; With this statement&comma; his reward was revoked&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Today couples rarely stand trial for a Flitch of Bacon except for at Dunmow every four years on a leap year&period; The next trial will be held in 2020&period; If you’re hoping to get married&comma; then plan accordingly and your first wedding anniversary might fall on the flitch trials to claim your reward&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;3 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5673 " id&equals;"quads-ad5673" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px 3px 3px 3px&semi;padding&colon;0px 0px 0px 0px&semi;" data-lazydelay&equals;"0">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;3 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5669 " id&equals;"quads-ad5669" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;text-align&colon;center&semi;padding&colon;0px 0 0px 0&semi;" data-lazydelay&equals;"0">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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